A Little Bit About Me
As Salaam Walaikum Rehmatuallah,
Bismillah,
Hello friends,
Serious candidates a nice gentleman with adhab ONLY for marriage want marriage with the right person immediately- this year IA.
NOT looking for relationships, no HARAAM relationships no vulgar talk, no atheists, understand, u better understand. Astakfaar.
NO kissing touching be4 marriage. No.
Although we can just meet ONCE in a cafe just for ONE hour.
Then u come to my house to meet my uncle & dad for halal MARRIAGE /NIKKAH as soon as possible. Asap.
We do nikkah u do proper big Valila inshallah.
No vulgar talk or questions. NO
Want someone practicing gd muslim.
Want British citizen above 35 inshallah.
(Do not want someone who is just looking for one thing in mind..in a marriage).
Learn to respect a woman.
Yes want children, raised in a gd muslim country, positive islamic environment inshallah.
For that I'm afraid we have to move to a good developed muslim country IA.
I'm just tired of the juggle and stress want to be in a place where can have cut down these chores and have a maid.
As I don't want to be a cleaning and cooking maid,as in muslim countries women don't do that all 7 days- main thing is too enjoy & support in marital life.
Whr a woman can stay at home & enjoy life raise children islamically care for husband and he provides & supports - the family/ wife financially, has a place to stay, inshallah.
Sorry but if ur making the woman work
then she will not be able to meet ur needs (in kufr countries) she will get too exhausted & stressed out in muslim countries women stay at home makes sense!
I suggest people from the west go to muslim countries get out of village mindset as roles are too mucked up here...A very rich East a very poor west.
Shaadi needs to be done properly- Nikah on our side valima on ur side and & financially secure to support a wife.
You do need to provide mehr otherwise ur nikkah is invalid.
Been to the middle east and men pay for the entire wedding and arab women in muslim countries do demand their mehr & get it fully - also stay at home unlike non Muslim countries..
As some are not paying up...(I don't want that problem again - sorry u should be giving mehr, bridal dress).
You cannot make the woman do everything, no as this is not in islamic tradition this is in fact a hindu custom where the woman gives gifts to the man??. No.
In islam it is the man who provides & gifts the woman not the other way around.
(U should give, gold & bridal dress, makeup,transport on the day).
In return we will give silver ring, sherwani money and Oud perfume /gift set & full time caring house wife in return!
As I don't want that problem again,u can't make the woman do everything.
Note in islam, it is the man who actually gives to the woman.
He is the one who should be providing paying /organising the wedding, (as in Arab, Iranian & somali culture).
If you are not giving 'mehr' to the woman as in Islamic terms then I'm afraid your wedding is invalid.
A real man never asks a woman for a single penny.
Even in non Muslims the man pays for everything in the wedding- 'don't tell the bride' program anyone??
So why can't Muslim men in the west?
I'm afraid you can't be 'stingy' if ur going to get married. No.
If you are not practicing (you should at least fast and pray want to do Hajj). Plus, if you don't want to make hijra from here to a good developed muslim country - then don't contact me.
You should be financially secure- with a place of ur own, as I do not want that problem again.
I do not want to live in the UK /the west.
Life is too difficult and stressful here,
(Long working hours, stress anxiety, depression, bad weather no sun, nasty environment & people in general,racism, crime, gangs, drugs,alcohol, sexual depravity, woke culture, identity crisis,bad poor of life, atheism, nazi feminism, pessimism, broken homes, just loathe the UK it's an ugly environment).
Oman, Qatar, UAE, Malaysia, Indonesia, Brunei all good muslim developed countries.
No I will NOT live in Pakistan. No. A big No. No thank U.
Pakistan only good for visits only (for the children's identity)
If u want to move from the west _UK it has to be a developed Muslim country, period. You cannot take your wife to a corrupt under developed country No. Out of the question.
People who are born and brought up in a good developed muslim country are extremely lucky & fortunate in the dunya and akhira.
Divorcee are welcome - as long as children are not living with them.
Thanks for visiting my profile.
Islamic adhab must apply.
Seriously looking for marriage /instant nikkah with suitable person to be this year 2024 - and who is practicing is well inshallah.
No time wasters,no dating or relationships excessive Watsapp one chatting. Don't waste my time. Don't waste my day.
Note, you will have to talk to family dad/ Wali if seriously interested.
The islamic way.
Just to avoid any fitnahs.
No relationships or dating.
I only 1 video call will suffice- if then interested u then talk 2 da lady's wali / dad - if a mam enough to propose and get married 😊👍.
All Islamic way.
We can talk once over phone once.
Only contact me if serious in marriage and willing to come home speak to parents / dad, send rishta at home.
If you don't know what you want or not mature enough do not contact- you should know by now what you want.
Real muslim men get MARRIED.
Let's see who's a real man.
People who date who have haraam relationships - never end up get married in the first place.
Main thing want a decent good person.
Previous marriage in annuled, so status is single. (The marriage was never consummated).
This time it will be the suitable person inshallah.
Pls note, if you are interested you will need to come to house meet family.
We welcome you.
Strictly no dating or relationships no time wasting/ ers.
Otherwise do not contact me. Thank You.
Happy nikkah:)
Do not want someone who is too liberal or listens to music or drinks alcohol, smokes goes to haram clubs, illicit relations vulgar talk- who is paving the way against the deen.
No deen in your heart- then don't bother contacting. Thank you.
Theres no success without deen Allah or his rasool.
Down to earth practicing person who enjoys life & luxury - and grabbing every opportunity there is in life & luxury and the akhira & deen.
Note:
Parental / family involvement welcome.
Best in deen and life and finding a spouse inshallah. 😊👍
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